feat: Add message parameter to otel_error macro

[andborja]

Change Summary

Adding "message" attribute to the otel_error macro.

What issue does this PR close?

Part of #1972

• Closes #N/A

How are these changes tested?

local builds and tests

Are there any user-facing changes?

No

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 15.00000% with 17 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 85.66%. Comparing base (fbf1560) to head (5851e7c).

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage   85.66%   85.66%           
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  Files         512      512           
  Lines      160844   160844           
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  Hits       137786   137786           
  Misses      22524    22524           
  Partials      534      534           

Components	Coverage Δ
otap-dataflow	87.46% <15.00%> (ø)
query_abstraction	80.61% <ø> (ø)
query_engine	90.23% <ø> (ø)
syslog_cef_receivers	∅ <ø> (∅)
otel-arrow-go	53.50% <ø> (ø)
quiver	91.63% <ø> (ø)

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